The Power of Human Connection in B2B: LinkedIn Strategy, Personal Branding & AI with Matthew Wheeler-Barrett
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Marking the 50th guest on the podcast, and a moment that reflects how this is growing across different B2B markets, including South Africa.
In this engaging conversation, Alexandra Forsyth and Matthew Wheeler-Barrett explore the significance of human connection and personal branding in today's fast-paced business environment, with top insights for optimising your LinkedIn profile in 2026.
They discuss the importance of building genuine relationships, the evolving landscape of B2B engagement, and the role of authenticity in content creation. Matthew shares insights on leveraging LinkedIn effectively, the impact of AI on personal branding, and the necessity of storytelling in fostering trust.
They explore strategies for creating engaging content, building authentic connections, and the significance of emotional intelligence in coaching. The dialogue emphasises the need for consistency, patience, and the value of community in achieving success. Matthew shares his journey into coaching and agency life, highlighting the challenges and rewards of helping others. The conversation concludes with insights on strategic authenticity and the importance of overcoming societal pressures.
Takeaways
- The importance of human connection in business and branding
- Strategies for authentic engagement on LinkedIn and other platforms
- The role of storytelling and consistency in scaling your personal brand
- Trends in B2B marketing, content creation, and platform strategies
- Balancing online presence with mental health and emotional intelligence
- Smarter communities can foster deeper trust and relationships
- AI should be leveraged to enhance human connection, not replace it
- Content should be tailored to the audience's preferences
Chapters
00:00 - Introduction to Matthew Wheeler-Barrett and the episode’s focus on human connection
02:13 - Why genuine relationships are more important than vanity metrics in LinkedIn growth
04:50 - The power of authentic personal branding and storytelling for trust-building
07:11 - Building communities with smaller, engaged audiences for stronger trust
11:26 - Tech trends: AI, content strategies, and platform evolution in 2023
13:47 - The shift towards authentic, less perfect content on LinkedIn
17:36 - Stories of leadership, corporate branding, and the role of storytelling in business success
22:27 - Daily routines for content creation and the importance of consistency
28:11 - Balancing online activity with real-world interactions and mental health
34:53 - Strategic authenticity and minimalism in content to foster engagement
42:36 - Using systems and data analytics to optimise personal branding efforts
50:46 - The role of storytelling in niche communities and leveraging audience trust
57:57 - Overcoming societal pressures and embracing individuality in personal branding
People that are really starting to do well are genuinely showing
up on a much more raw and open level.
So not, you know, I believe there's the perfect strategy is
almost the wrong strategy on LinkedIn because when you are
this spanking clean personal brand and everything's like
correct to the last design, the last like leather, I think you
make yourself unapproachable because you almost seem like the
Super serious tight knit outfit that never basically makes a
mistake. And we're human.
We all make mistakes, no matter how smart you are and whatnot.
Like I'd make the stupidest mistakes that I just why would I
do that? But I do it because we're human.
Sometimes we get overwhelmed with things.
So I think that's the main trend that like the roar of contents
winning, but also people that really know how to position
themselves better. And because there's more fluff
on the feet, the people that can position themselves better and
actually create an offer that's simple to understand.
How do you feel would will win on LinkedIn in general?
Welcome back to the Take a Chance on the podcast hosted by
me, Alexandra Forsythe. Today I'm so excited to be
passing the mic to Matthew Wheeler Barrett, who describes
himself as being obsessed with human connection.
He's based in Cape Town, South Africa, and he's the founder of
Unify. Matthew, how are you doing?
Very good. Thank you.
Thank you so much for having me. I'm really looking forward to
diving into this conversation today.
Me too, because we share commonalities in terms of human
connection. So I think what might be quite
nice for the listeners is if you just give an introduction into
who you are and what you do. Yeah, sure.
Thank you so much. So yeah, Co founder of Unify,
which is AB to B personal branding agency and I'll be
based outside in in Cape Town, which is awesome.
Great talent out here, great potential, great people.
So yeah, we're really enjoying the fact that we're expanding
more into the international markets.
And yeah, that's the agency side.
And then on the coaching side, I'm working on one or two things
behind the scenes that you guys will hear about soon.
But yeah, also heavily involved in coaching and some other
creators, cohorts and communities on LinkedIn.
And from all of this experience, yeah, as as you mentioned, with
my obsession with human connection, I do find that this
world is moving very fast with AI.
But I am definitely going to be 1 to remind people that genuine
relationship and human connection is of utmost
importance for business. It is.
And I think the trends this year, people really want
connection. They really want to get back in
person, talking to each other, building community.
So it's not just you and I, I think it's universal.
I think there are a lot of people out there who are
struggling to possibly get past technology and embrace AI for
what it is, and I do keep saying that's what we should do, but
don't lose sight of the humanness.
Yes exactly, and I mean most specifically Islington.
I think unfortunately so many people get obsessed with the the
vanity metrics. Is my post doing well this and
that? Meanwhile, you got the DMS,
you've got people in your network.
Start building relationships, start having conversations.
What I found as you grow your personal brand and you show
consistently, it definitely gives you a greater sense of
leverage and trust. And that allows you also then to
meet up with people quicker in person.
So I like to always say your LinkedIn is a personal brand
development tool. If you show up genuinely human,
it actually allows you to move on the ground faster and get
into those rooms. It's not even pitching a client
or trying to get business, bringing learnings, bringing new
connection. I think it's so important that
we never lose the human elements to where this online world's
going because at the end of the day, yeah, human connection
Trump's all. And I think, I don't know, I'd
love to hear your thoughts on this too.
But I do feel like we're eventually going to go in
circles, like most things do in fashion and all sorts of things.
People going to get tired of the AI and the lack of connection,
and they're going to really then start seeking out for
communities and groups that generally do value the human
connection versus trying to just absolutely scale everything,
just get all the numbers high. It's not all about that.
It's all about, yeah, that connection.
So I'm happy to see also what comes of this chat and how we
just keep bouncing between ourselves with this.
The conversation flowing for sure.
I've written down a few points because you keep talking really
fast, but I'm love what you said about personal branding.
I would say longevity with a personal brand, it's not an
overnight. You can pivot your careers.
Don't worry too much about that. I started out in a corporate
setting and then slowly made my way through to creative.
But I still do a lot with technology.
So I've combined half a dozen different skills that I have.
So don't be afraid to do that. And then remember when you're
building your brand, start posting, talking about projects
that you're working on. But like I say, it's not an
overnight. And I know, Matt, we've spoken
about this before. Love what you mentioned about
DMS, warm leads. Never underestimate the power of
your existing network. It's not always about trying to
outreach to people who you may not know yet, but what have you
got within your immediate circle that you can benefit from
mutually together? And then obviously to your point
at the end about going full circle with AI, I mean micro
influencers and content creators who have communities, the
compounding effect of that, the relationship building, the trust
and rapport, Trump's possibly a community with 50,000 people in
and there's no real connection there or they haven't met up,
they haven't had an opportunity to see each other.
And I mean, I was joking about all this is yeah, I was on that
LinkedIn live this morning and part of that discussion, which
was really interesting on that conversation.
But, you know, with DMS, people are so, like, quick and rushed
to get to the end goal that people sense almost that
desperation. Like, you would never go up to a
random person on the street and be like, you know, let's go for
dinner. You need to like, at least like,
slowly but surely build a genuine relationship.
And you know, I could start with even just a compliment on
someone's content and slowly, you know, making your face more
recognisable in their content and then slowly bleeding it into
the conversations. But what I did encourage people
this morning to do is like send 100 messages, but don't have a
rushed endpoint for all of them. If some of them take two weeks,
cool. But eventually you're going to
constantly be having human conversations flowing to the
point that naturally certain ones will just start closing and
go in the direction you want. And I think another important
point that I really enjoyed you mentioning was especially in
B2B, and I've seen people post about it recently again, is
people get, oh, and you got 2000 impressions.
I'm like, OK, let's say the unique visits there are probably
about 1300 people, 1300 people. Imagine them all in a room that
would feel like overwhelming. Meanwhile, they're viewing your
content every day, right? And people need to realise like
the, the smaller communities, you have greater chance of
greater connection, which equals greater trust.
Greater trust allows you to have greater leverage, which builds
Better Business. So I'm very excited to see where
the B2B space goes. I mean, if you want me to, I
could share and and a bit some of the predictions I have with
community and where things I think are going.
But yeah, it's just genuinely All in all so exciting,
especially for the people and I. Look, I appreciate we all have
to put food on the table, we all have to pay our bills.
But when you can and things maybe are in a bit more of a
comfortable position, just slow things down a bit, focus on
actually building genuine relationships and you'll be,
you'll be amazed when you show up for others, they'll start
showing up for you. Absolutely.
I definitely want you to go into the trends in a second.
But it reminded me of how we first connected.
I think we've we've been connected for a long time.
Neither of us reached out to each other because I didn't feel
that we needed to at that time. OK, Now I'd like to speak to
Matt about XY and Z relating to events, etcetera.
So yeah, it's, it's organic. It comes at the time when it's
meant to. But like you say, if you rush in
when it comes to business, it can lose that bit of
authenticity. So I really like, I really like
that point. And as you say, it's trust
equals leverage trying to build. It's for me, it's always all
about authenticity, connection, trust, rapport.
You can get that right. Everything else should flow
quite nicely. And again, also really
interesting, I'm in the place that you're mentioning taking it
a bit slower, really building a solid foundation when it comes
to who I'm out reaching to, doing my due diligence.
What does 12 months look like with that brand?
I think business to business be to being.
You should be thinking more along those lines anyway.
I. Fully agree with you and to tie
onto your one point about also slowing down and even using the
example between our engagement and how it came to having this
conversation today is just by staying top of mind.
People need to remember that that's what you have to do,
especially for high ticket value items because they may not be at
the right time and you approach them in the place to purchase
your offer or for example need it.
But when they suddenly hit the fan and things go wrong and they
need someone to solve the problem.
Now if you do communicate in an effective way through your
content and showing up authentically, you most like,
you'll be one of the people that get a chance to let's say
picture offer or your services of how you can help someone.
But that only comes unfortunately with consistency.
It's like going going to the gym, you can't just suddenly get
all like, you know, shredded and in the best shape of your life.
You have to keep going back to the gym still.
Same with your personal brand. You can't just close one lead
and then think, ah, everything's just going to fall into my lap.
I almost feel like eventually personal branding will become
that because how are you going to stand out?
How are you going to show up on a human level when there are so
many things evolving on a technical level with AI and
whatnot. And I truly believe that people
genuinely, really do need to leverage AI in the right ways,
but also in the ways to build systems that unlocks those
pockets of time that allow you to be human with the things that
need to be kept human. Absolutely.
So going back to B2B trends, what's it been looking like for
you this year already? Any changes to 2025 and then
looking ahead where we're going? So just LinkedIn specific, let's
say, let's start there. And I'd say that because the
bars on the floor with content, you know, it's easy to just
quickly throw something in AI regurgitate your thoughts and
throw it on the feed. Whereas let's say Instagram, I
think it's a bit more challenging because the bars are
a bit higher. You have to create good video,
you have to add your subtitles and that takes time.
So the it's more effort to show up.
Meanwhile, everyone's just giving it a crack on LinkedIn.
Hey I created this Claude system comment Claude blah blah blah.
And you can tell. You can tell.
You really can. Bonkers mile away.
Anyone listening, if you see those posts go check their
experience and most of the time there will be people that have
barely works in the working world.
No offence to them. I appreciate the hustle, but
just be careful with who you listen to for certain parts that
you're going to implement into your business.
But where where in general LinkedIn I see going is the
people that are really starting to do well are genuinely showing
up on a much more raw and open level.
So not, you know, I believe there's the perfect strategy is
almost the wrong strategy on LinkedIn because when you are
this spanking clean personal brand and everything's like
correct to the last design, the last like leather, I think you
make yourself unapproachable because you almost seem like the
Super serious tight knit outfit that never basically makes a
mistake. And we're human.
We all make mistakes, no matter how smart you are and whatnot.
Like I'd make the stupidest mistakes that I just why would I
do that? But I'd do it because we're
human. Sometimes we get overwhelmed
with things. So I think that's the main trend
that like the roar of contents winning, but also people that
really know how to position themselves better.
And because there's more fluff on the feed, the people that can
position themselves better and actually create an offer that's
simple to understand, I do feel would will win on LinkedIn in
general. It's more so just showing up
more vulnerably, more authentically and not making it
as perfect as possible. It needs to be a bit of a messy
brand to a certain extent in a way.
And. Yeah, I agree.
Yeah, I'd say that's, that's mainly the trends I'm seeing on
the LinkedIn side. If I look at the podcast when I
first started, I always say it was so opposite to who I was at
the time in terms of a corporate background, very squeaky, very
clean. When it comes to the podcast,
it's always feels a bit ratty, and I quite like that because it
shows another part of my personality and also the focus
on the guest. I don't know whether you've read
the talent report that LinkedIn posted this year a little bit
earlier on, and they were saying the percentage of individuals
changing their bio to founder or entrepreneur has skyrocketed
this year because people want more autonomy over their
careers, which we're seeing anyway with the AI and IP,
especially in the creative industry, copyright
infringement, there's a lot of battles going on with different
artists. So it makes sense that that's
possibly where we're going. Yeah.
And I think the way corporates going, when you just hear about
all these massive mass retrenchments, you know,
arguably think, especially now where we're moving and more and
more jobs are going to get replaced by AI, Arguably,
there's never been a time better to invest in your personal
brand. And like, once you build an
audience and a community that you trust, it's yours for the
taking in terms of, you know, how you monetize it, how you
perhaps leverage relationships to go into business with other
people. There's all sorts of angles you,
you can do, you know, I, I was even speaking with someone this
week about a similar topic where you could be really good at
scaling your own personal brand, which I've seen on LinkedIn,
people are, but then it sounds like in the background they're
struggling for clients because writing and doing it for someone
else is a completely different game.
And that's where it really shows who's got the understanding and
skills because personal branding and showing up as a human and
whatever you want to call it on LinkedIn these days is there
needs to be a strong understanding of strategy,
positioning, design, storytelling.
It's not just copy anymore. Copywriting also arguably not.
Is the new modern selling with content, how it's shifting.
So I think there's so many options.
But what I said, someone could even scale their brand and maybe
they they don't have luck with other clients, but they're very
good at telling a story through their eyes.
You know, it opens up the opportunities where let's say a
tech business that aren't really good at marketing themselves,
you could perhaps proposition them.
Hey guys, you aren't really good at doing social media.
And I know Cody Sanchez speaks about things similar things to
this as well. And like, give me a bit of
equity or stake in the business and like I'll tell the story.
I'll be the face of the business because I appreciate like
everything. I'm not into building websites
and I'm sure people aren't into building their personal brands.
I think I, I see that as being a trend where eventually there's
going to be individuals that have built such a strong
audience. I think that is like the sign of
where it's going, right? There's going to be one or two
strong voices that essentially act as the overall distribution
strategy. I love that and I think the idea
that if you aren't as comfortable building your
personal brand, however you'd like to do it for somebody else,
it's a win win for only yourself to have the experience.
But then for the company to elevate their positioning, both
business and personal, top level leadership also coming to the
table now and also saying, well, it's not enough for us to just
share content about the business.
We've got to actually walk customers through the process,
show them the product, show them the solution, us trialling it to
gain that trust. So I also see there's a bit more
of a storytelling that needs to be happening.
And I'd argue that if you're a startup or an SME, take the time
now to really build that funnel. And I mean a great example as
well to show people are hungry to learn from the people.
Even with the announcement of Tim Cook stepping down from
Apple and John. Yes, I saw he.
Didn't even have an optimised profile.
I saw a few people post about it, but there there's the proof
in the pudding. The rate at which his size of
his account grew made me upset for someone that's been trying
to grow it for three years. That.
Tripled my audience in like a day, but that.
Just goes he. Shows you like.
And by now, what's the point? I mean, depending on where he
goes and what he decides to do next.
But I do think obviously he spent so much time up on the
valuation of the company, the size that it's gone up in his
ten years, astronomical. They were going through some of
the figures and statistics. It's amazing what he's done.
I do think though, in terms of ROI metric for more of your,
your corporate personal branding people, let's say or Cxos, is
that the biggest return on investment we've seen with our
more, let's say hardcore corporate clients is talent
acquisition through the content. So there's one thing to have job
ads, there's another to have a standard company template off
Canva. Hey, new job of cool, but that
doesn't tell me anything about your company.
If I'm a young working professional, yes, I'm grateful
for any job opportunity. However, I probably still will
play between a few options based on where I think my trajectory
of my career is going to go in terms of learning and how's this
person going to help me grow more.
What am I going to get exposed to?
And I mean, we have a, a very big end of line automation
machinery company that spent like $3000 a month and it lacks
the human connection, right? $3000 a month on LinkedIn job
ads, not one hire. And they did it for I think 3
months. So $9000 in total.
And we did a few posts. We started getting going,
getting good traction on the CE OS account showing the factory,
the people, the values, 16 key hires with engineers.
So it's like people buy from. People, but I think.
There's so many diff how cool is that like?
And you now don't even have to go pay recruitment fees or
LinkedIn job ad sponsorships. Hiring, I will be going to see
what you're posting online in terms of your brand.
I don't necessarily mind if you if you don't have a website, but
what does your portfolio look like?
What are your opinions and have you done anything outside of the
job? But what are your interests
because that will also interest me.
OK. Exactly.
There you go. And then it's just you could you
could see it as a tool to LinkedIn, a tool to network at
scale. But if done right and a bit
slower, you can still go fast, faster than you could go on the
ground. I mean, you can only have so
many cups of tea or coffee a day.
I'll do the numbers on the ground, but you can use it as
you know you're tool to move on the ground as well.
And I yeah, I make LinkedIn my daily habit It I start my day by
writing my post every morning because it gets me focused.
It gets me excited. I'm the.
Complete opposite. I'm the complete opposite to
you. I love how you say it gets you
fired up. I think, oh, here we go again.
Here we go again, I've got to post it.
I got a reply to comments, which I love.
But at the same time, I think the anxiety in me because I'm
just, I do really treat it as a business, whether people agree
or disagree. For me personally, I'm on that.
I post and then I'm off within the space of 30 to 40 minutes
because I just love the in person interaction, the
conversations. The same with the podcast going
live, going in person. I just thrive on that.
Gives me the most inspiration, the most knowledge I can absorb
is through other people. I mean, our conversation, our
conversation today. I've already written down some
notes which are spinning plates in my mind.
That's what I need. But everyone's different.
Everybody is different. People have the same level
online. Yeah, exactly.
And that that ties into a good question someone asked me this
morning is like what, what content format do you think I
should post on LinkedIn on? Let's just say it's in general B
to B social media. And I was like, I can only tell
you so much. And also based on my experience
of what our clients and we've experienced ourselves, however,
the your audience is going to tell you what they want.
Like some niche may just prefer video more verse, let's say
carousel posted have a deeper dive into a method or
methodology or strategy you're working on.
So it's like you got a test and then where you find, like you
said, like this brings you the the energy or whatnot.
Like same with your audience, with what whoever you have to
make sure that like you test and so many people are so obsessed
with coming onto social media with the perfect strategy.
There's no such thing as a perfect strategy because it's a
constant evolvement. Work in progress, viewing the
transcripts, looking at the comments like what are people
saying so that I can refine it to give you what you're asking
for. Absolutely.
I think I mean LinkedIn, I'm quite surprised.
I post a lot of videos, clips of the podcast.
They do amazingly, especially kind of the follower to click
through rate etcetera. The ratio is just, it's all
organic as well. I just, I never boosted.
They said to myself, 12 months. I just wanted to see what would
happen. Because if you don't, if you
don't have a strategy behind boosting and marketing, it can
go wrong very quickly, I think because then you lose the
community that started interacting with you at the
beginning. So yeah, I'm quite surprised.
But video does very, very well. Whereas sometimes Instagram and
TikTok, not so much. So it's it just depends, as you
say, going back to that content being strategic, anything that
plan in place, distributing differently, one post on
LinkedIn will not resonate the same way on Instagram or TikTok
or YouTube or any other platform that you're using.
Sub stack is a lot to do with storytelling.
So long form posts do incredibly well.
So overwhelming. And then you've got to pick and
I do think so maybe a recommendation and we'll come to
recommendations is just pick one or two platforms to begin with,
one or two, stick to it six months and again create that
road map, that phased approach. Yeah, I I fully like, I'll
probably be after this focusing now on YouTube.
So I got the camera and everything now and then sub
stack. I also do like sub stacks.
Quite an awesome community for learning and just practising.
As you said, more of your storytelling and let's say more
creative thinking. Almost feel like I'm a Rick
Rubin when I'm writing on. What did somebody say?
They said that Sub Stack feels like the smoking area when you
go to a nightclub. Everybody's just chatting away
because it doesn't feel regulated at all and it's not
really you go on there and people just writing short form,
long form there. It's their thoughts and opinions
more so than hard and facts. I find people are just.
But it's respectable. Yeah, I do.
I don't spend enough time on there to be honest.
Maybe I should have a think about that.
But YouTube having its moment, short form content really
recommend doing that. What do you what are you doing
for YouTube? Your coaching?
So yeah, I'll do some videos where off the back of some of
our landing pages will get people deeper into the content
funnel, like just to take them on a bit of a journey through
some emails just to build greater levels of trust while
we're waiting to get them on a sales call, for example.
And then on the coaching side, yeah, it'll be more of my my
quick coaching learnings. I'm probably going to start
doing testimonial coaching sessions with the clients that
are willing to do it so that everyone can get access to that.
Because like I said to you beforehand, anyone can scale
their own brand. But when you can display how
you're very good relating to someone else's situation and
getting them results, you can't replicate that kind of content,
especially your competitors. But I think also touching on
when you, yeah, I agree with you, stick to some platforms.
I think for me, it's quite easy where I want to go further, like
let's say Instagram and what not, but I'm lucky where I have
the resources now to invest in that to get people to actually
help me on like let's say a consultant bases.
But for me, as well as feels like a lot of a safe investment
because I've truly seen the power of a personal brand and
I'm obviously in the industry, but I think for people that are
in it's so much easier just to like know that like the the long
term growth mindset is so key for the psych.
It's I'm not here to quickly try build something with or vibe
good something. It's like, you know, get it out
there in six months. Like I'm here for the for the
long haul. I have to what you're going to
do when you sell a business anyway, you're going to get
bored. So I'm enjoying the journey.
I'm in no rush to hit any milestone or agenda as long as
we're screwing steadily but strongly and the tends getting
better and like relationships are getting better.
Like happy days. Like one of our clients base
said it like I don't believe in work life balance.
I have a work life blend and for me I don't mind doing a bit of
work on a Sunday. And like, you know, I'm chaotic.
I work all the time, love it. And if you love what you do and
you're passionate about it, then I, I think do whatever makes you
happy. I'm no judgement from me.
Yeah, exactly. Obviously if one post does
really outperform, that could be a strong indication that that
story is resonating. So possibly then put another
post out and talk about it more. Yes, yeah.
Like in the end of the day, B to B to somewhat form is just smart
repetition. And I think you also need to
overcome the fact that you you may sound like a broken record
or stuck record but at the end of the day like half of people
don't even see the 1st post you post like it's I don't even
remember what I posted. I haven't even seen your post.
I haven't even seen the algorithm.
If somebody at Linkedin's listening, I'd like to
understand a little bit more about the algorithm this year,
because I'm not seeing anybody's post at all, only the one.
Yeah, so I got a bit of assumption.
There you go. Bit of assumption tested tested
as well and I think I have proof to to my my assumption and I'm
sure hopefully when we posted some people are commented in the
comments. So commented in the comments,
but basically keywords. So keywords on your profile,
let's say now I'm targeting coaches and I want to like help
coaches tell their personal stories, build their brand
better so they can build better pipeline.
So if I start speaking directly to their pains, like, you know,
you keep posting stuff, but meanwhile you're posting, let's
say AI photos or Cheat Sheets like hello, like you're a human,
people are buying you, you need to show more of yourself and
tell stories, etcetera. And I started doing more of
those post to test things for some other projects I'm working
on other than the agency. And naturally from just shifting
that content I just had probably in one day, I had 29 coaches
just from that one post. So what I'm thinking is
happening now, audience size isn't as relevant on LinkedIn
because we've seen our smaller client accounts now with certain
content that's very niche specific go viral.
So like a post, an account with 450 followers is getting over
700 engagements on a very niche specific post.
I think it's distributing it to the people that are actually
needing to see your content based on what you're selling
with the keywords. So audience size arguably is
going to become less of a thing. And This is why I get so
frustrated with people listening more to your LinkedIn gurus and
like audience this or I grew by this many impressions.
Who cares? Like just write for your
audience and you and have more DM conversations.
You don't need to worry about that because would you rather
have a full bank account or loads of impressions that make
you feel good for a few minutes and then you're back to your
normal life? Like it's brutal truth, but
like, that's it. Like that's the game.
Now it is. I've spoken to a few people in
my network and they've gone viral on TikTok but it's very
short lived. They have a day where the
dopamine hits and the endorphins are running high.
But then after that it's well, I didn't monetize because you have
to have a number of viral posts in order to do that.
As you say, you end up going back to your quote unquote
normal life and I don't know, maybe a little part of you is
lost along the way as well. But I love what you mentioned
about keywords because I didn't know this and I've been
struggling this year to understand what's going on.
I still posted the way I normally post.
It is what it is. I'm posting a lot more about the
podcast and I think that's shifting things, but it's also
shifting the audience for me. And a six months time, hopefully
it'll all come back full circle. But I am seeing a shift which I
knew would happen because I was posting a lot about
cybersecurity in the podcast last year.
This year it's just for long creative content.
So yeah, that that's that's the benchmark.
So don't worry. I think also when you make your,
your users or your guests the hero of the stories, it just
tends to just bring better vibe All in all.
And when I, when I'm watching people like just show me their
work through other people, that builds so much more trust and so
much more engaging and interesting because that's the
what we're in the game for on LinkedIn.
Everyone has a business on LinkedIn and you know, you know,
and I do appreciate it's hard sometimes for smaller people to
get more case studies to make the person the hero of the
story. But then there's also, you know,
take a client, they've got 5 pain points when they came to
you. Change the hook for each pain
point, but tell the same story. But like hook different people
in with that pain that they may be also experiencing and like
recycle your content. I think so many people upset
I've posted this now I can't and it's it's just smart reputation
and learning of what's going on in the conversations.
And I'm sure what's great for you with this too and why also
Joy personal branding so much is just like this format we're
doing now. We do that with our clients and
the amounts of wealth we've accumulated in all these
different industries just from chatting to arguably also people
that are at the best at their game because, you know, they
obviously have the resources to get agencies to help them and
tell their stories and all this. And it's so cool.
Like you learn so much just through conversation and
community. And once again, like you said,
slow things down. Like there's no rush and people
can feel when you're trying to rush the process.
And I think it's a beautiful place when you get to that point
where there's some consistent revenue.
Now you can still be very consistent systemized things,
but you can just slow things down at that right pace and
actually it will result in Better Business and.
Relationship, absolutely. And I think less is more.
So don't feel that you need to write every single thing that
you know in a post. And I struggled with that last
year. I used to write my posts used to
be so, so long. This year I try and do as
minimal as I can. Try and get the key message
across. Sometimes they still feel a
little bit lengthy, but less is more because you want people to
come to you and say, oh, I really resonated with that point
you just raised. Tell me more.
I think so also how the algorithm's acting is it also
now I think measures success of a piece of content by the amount
of downtime it uses spending on your post too.
It's like we, we even look into things now, like never tag
someone in the first few lines because arguably like a website,
they'll bounce off the post to the other page and then they
won't have that increased downtime on your post.
So then we'll always, for example, like tag people at the
bottom. There's like small things on
LinkedIn that are always changing.
They will always forever change, change as all platforms evolve.
You just got to keep testing different things.
And as you know, like I'm never I no one knows exactly what's
happening. Like do LinkedIn even know
what's happening with the algorithm?
All I do know is though that like your message, what you do
for other people never, never will change and e-mail, you have
maybe a chance of someone responding.
A few emails may bounce, but once you have someone in your
network and LinkedIn, there's 100% success rate that they get
that in the inbox. Yes, they may not respond on the
first or second time, but I know some coaches and the, the one
coach I'm friends with Matt Lakayev, who's in Australia.
He's got an awesome community. He's got a massive following and
yeah, he's done the numbers and I, I trust him because he's
proven it. And he says on average it takes
about the 5th or 7th message to of a follow up to get somewhere
with someone because perhaps they're not ready at the time.
Doesn't mean they don't like your content.
Same with us. We had each other in our
network. We enjoyed the content.
That doesn't mean that it's end all like it could just result in
happening maybe six months, a year's time.
So it's just a consistency game. This LinkedIn, it's like SEO
over. Websites, oh God, SEO on
websites. I mean, I've cracked it now, but
God, that took me a year. That was definitely trial and
error. I think for me, I don't really
like just sending a message to say, hello, thanks for
connecting. There's got to be purpose there.
There's got to be a reason why I'm reaching out and we talked
about so much already. Can you give your
recommendations so far? I want to talk more about the
coaching and agency side and how you managed to get into that
role, the process, the story behind that for the listeners,
Maybe we touch from B to B, personal brand and that human
connection community. Is there anything the listeners
can take when? Also, in my mind, I'm thinking
if you're a startup or an SME, you're just starting out and you
don't necessarily have budget, what can you do as well?
Sure. I'd say the the main thing as
well with LinkedIn and the profile and the keywords we
mentioned, I think the biggest thing people get wrong as
they're positioning they, they try be a bit too salesy, let's
say on their profile that then when you send people connections
that are if I accept this person, they're definitely going
to pitch slap me or something. So we've, we've learned through
our clients, played a bit softer with the overall positioning.
And like for any marketeers listening to this who know like
the whole framework with message house and ensuring that like,
you know, it's very structured from the top down to the bottom.
Your your LinkedIn profile, your content on there almost needs to
follow a similar thing with the positioning of the profile, the
content and what you actually are speaking about and what you
offer. And I think it's arguably just a
quick banner change and the copy on your profile.
And everyone can do that also with AI now.
And that's, that's amazing things that the knowledge gaps
closed, But use that, use that to get some insights.
What are people saying? Like, I do think that could
perhaps tie into this. This, this third thing is also
with LinkedIn to become better at it.
And you don't need anything fancy.
You do need consistency, but small things like just send
yourself more voice notes on WhatsApp.
I have a WhatsApp group with myself.
I didn't have a clawed brain. I've set up, and how I set that
up is loads of transcripts from conversations like this with my
clients. Any emails that I took like a
long time to go through to articulate a process, I'll build
that all into my brain so it sounds more and more like me.
And then literally at the end of the day, I just play all my
voice notes into my brain and there I've.
Got my so smart but I don't like listening to my voice.
Well, yeah, that's I agree with you.
I don't, I'm not that type of some people.
Some of my mates listen back. Oh gosh, what are you doing?
Hit a button and I can just speak to my device with
WhatsApp, with Claude, with Google Docs, anything, you name
it. And I've actually started
commenting on people's posts on LinkedIn now by doing that, it
basically just speeds up if you were to type it out, but it
literally dictates it. It's I'm very impressed with how
how well it listens to your voice and notices patterns,
grammar pause. Everything it writes it, it
writes it out as as if you were that.
She's an English teacher writing it.
Out I'll definitely link the, the resources you've mentioned.
It's the digital download at the end of the day.
So for listeners, I think that's, that's really useful.
Some of your notes or how the day's gone and then summarise
what's going well, what hasn't, who do I need to reach out to,
follow-ups, etcetera. Because I mean, if we talk about
pipeline, it's never ending really.
The the problem with the content creation though is when most
people stare at a blank page, it is so difficult to get going.
And by just putting it through that I'm not, I don't copy and
paste it suddenly straight into LinkedIn, but I've already got a
few very good lines and the angle of the post already that
now I can humanly go into it and edit it.
So my overall ending advice for those those three things you
went with is focus on building systems that help you analyse
the right data that allow you to save time with things that are
remedial and actually don't need the human effort.
So that in turn, it results in you having more time to keep the
things human that need to stay human.
Like simple as that. And the more and more, yeah, you
show up authentically, your content's going to get better.
You're going to get better insights from your clients.
You're going to start signing more professional because you
understand how to really like position yourself better.
And it, you have this whole LinkedIn game brings you so, so
much clarity and allows you to sell and speak so much better
because you're just constantly at working at refining.
How do I come off to my potential clients or how do I
build my network? And I just think it's, I wish
every young person these days and university was forced to
build a LinkedIn profile. Like I'm actually, I got one of
my interns that's working with us, that's at the University of
Cape Town. And I thought, flip, you know
what, I'm going to put myself in an uncomfortable position today.
And he spoke to his lecturer and I'm doing a lecture at
university because I want want to encourage young people to
build their brands because from him building his brand with us
for a year, he's already had five job.
Opportunities. I love hearing success stories
like that, especially for young people, for students.
I mean, the workforce trying to get in there now is crazy.
Just post one or two things about the projects you're doing,
because you never know who's going to see him.
I fully agree with you. And it's so positive for me that
like, because I still think we're early days of LinkedIn and
like people like, oh, Matthew worried that there's going to be
so many LinkedIn agencies and AI, right this.
And I'm like, no, like there's a billion users on there now.
That's like 1/7 of the population.
Surely a few more billion will eventually be on there because
people will need to stand up more as a human.
ACV won't cut it just like that anymore if I'm looking for
talent. Now 100% look at their personal
brand because when personal branding, like you want someone
that believes in it, you want someone to preach the company
they work at and enjoy it as much as you enjoy it.
So yeah, it's just super exciting.
It's still early doors, I feel. So I think the people though
that are willing to be a bit more patient, a bit more human,
they will may all come out on. Top, absolutely.
I think talking more on your agency and coaching side, how
did you get into it? I graduated in 2017 with my
marketing honours and I worked for one of my friends who was in
an online property space similar to let's say Purple Bricks in
the UK where it was the first online property company in South
Africa. He was a year older than me, so
at the time he was about 25. I was like no way is this 25
year olds got this company. All this.
I want to work for him, I want to learn from him.
And as a student I wasn't very studious.
I didn't do much of the student part but did the fun parts of
being a student. But most of the time I spent
working going for coffees with men get.
Older now, can't do it now. And I, yeah, I didn't.
I didn't want to learn from someone regurgitating A textbook
from me. I wanted to learn from someone
that's actually running a business because that's what I
wanted to do. So eventually work there.
Then after eight months of working with him, I had an idea
to almost create like the the D pop comparison in South Africa,
which was called Reware. So used to resell some high end
second hand fashion. I think I looking back now, I
still think I was quite immature in my business sense, just also
as a as a young guy and he's like early 20s and I just felt I
wasn't mature enough looking back now.
But it brought great learnings. I made a great network there and
that really spurred me on for like entrepreneurship.
Then went over during COVID to the UK because I'm originally
from the UK so I could get a repat flat flight back bumped
into one of my uncle's mates, worked at his agency at the
time, was a startup and I was the first one to join.
It's crazy that she started with like part time work, helping
with the odd job and like come few weeks later like full time.
And I was so fortunate to work under my boss at the time, under
him for like the hold of COVID. So I absorbed a tonne for
agency. Then unfortunately just with the
the life of lockdown still and minimal social interaction and
everything, my mental health got really bad.
So I went back to South Africa. And then of course, because of
the war in Russia and when that kicked off and the living
expenses in the UK, they wanted me back there, but I wasn't
willing to. So I did lose my job.
So yeah, also looking back on that, never took it personally.
It was a business decision on on their side.
They reached out to me and we're looking at potentially doing a
partnership now and like me helping them with the LinkedIn
side of things. So I think the that All in all,
is the the the story of how I I got into it.
But I think, yeah, I've got a very aggressive persistence and
grits that I've used to taking the hits.
Once you get addicted to that entrepreneurship feel it's it's
it's hard to love it down at so the agency kept growing and then
eventually met like I forgot Oz reached out to me two years ago
and I I coached for for him in his community and I still do to
presence. I've been doing it for two
years, but the the first year in four months, I was so excited
that I was like, no way this guy's wanting me to coach and
he's cohort. This is awesome.
I didn't even think about looking at the details.
I just said yes, sign me up, I'm doing it.
Go back and look at the our difference.
Oh boy, it was Monday from midnight till. 2:30 AM.
But I still I, yeah, but I did it for a year or a year and a
half almost. And I'd go to sleep, I'd set my
alarm, I'd get up, do some push ups, get the blood flowing and
I'd do the coaching. And I'd, I think arguably that's
when it really unlocked my passion for coaching because I
had so many different SMEs coming on, so many different
problems. And what's quite tricky and
difficult on a live coaching session when someone's in the
community is if they're all at different stages of the course,
it's very hard to give overall advice to people.
So you have to be quick on your feet with giving people
individual advice on the call while someone, perhaps you know,
wants to ask more technical questions.
Someone's shame is getting like a bit overwhelmed over there
because they've just come on the call and really just helped me
sharpen my sword for asking the right questions, giving them
real time examples and trying my best in real time to give them
essentially like the best advice that's relatable to them.
I finally got a morning slot on my side, so I need to do it at
10 in the morning now, thank goodness.
So I was very grateful for that when that slot came open.
And yeah, eventually I'm getting more and more into coaching now.
It's I definitely think it's more of my passion.
Like you say when you're on these calls, you know, you write
down so many things. It ignites your creativity,
your, your human connection. Yeah, there.
You guys love to see it, love to see the classic notebook.
I think as well, I think I'll always do it.
I I I know people have flash cards and they tend to have
everything typed out so it still feels the same.
But I love a notebook. Honestly, honest, honest, honest
truth. The guests say so many great
things. I want to remember it because I
know the listener will love to hear it.
So I have to write it down. So what you've just told me now
that's what people need to do for their business to tell their
stories to their clients, right? And that's where I think just
document every single idea. And I think naturally that will
help people as well. So yeah, I'm hopefully I get to
help many more people now with going on to the the coaching
side. I had my first call yesterday
with a few people and yeah, just absolutely vibrating on the
energy. I definitely share your, your
feelings there. It's a amazing feeling and
especially also having younger people on there and you being
able to positively help them with the the right trajectory of
their life are super rewarding. Think it should be a crime with
what teachers and people educators get paid in.
In some countries they are literally the responsible for
the future. But at the same time, I do
unfortunately think especially with business universities are
far behind in terms of not really a cupping the modern day
business person with the right skills and the right
understanding. So one of my B hat goals that
say is I eventually do want to compete with tertiary education
and the NBA as well. Just think they are missing the
main learning is they don't teach you properly how to
network, how to let's say barter with value exchange with people
to actually use that as a way to learn something first trying to
just get money all the time. And my biggest learnings come
from people because at the end of the day, those courses still
are made for a group of people continuously, whereas business
is forever changing and you know it.
An MBA will never be specific to 1 niche, like really deep into
one niche. Like maybe there is certain
ones. Like I've heard some new models
of how the MBA is coming out too, which is really cool.
There's one now I think online where instead of like spending
hours in the evening or what not, you just do a little bit
every single day. So the time like it comes to the
end of that you've almost completed it because you're
consistent with rather micro bits of doing it first trying to
cram in between like work and free time.
So it's very interesting. I'll try find it and send it to
you. But I just think All in all,
I've learned my greatest learnings through just
networking and learning from other people because they're the
actual people that have gone out and done it.
And that's it's also way it's way more fun to learn that way.
Way more fun than sitting at a desk and looking at paper.
I had a guest come on recently. He's in Toronto, Canada, and
he's the founder of Wayfinders, a big community of
entrepreneurs. A friend was really into breath
work but hadn't trialled it with anybody, but knew that's what he
wanted to do. He wanted to be a breath work
coach, so he trialled it with two or three people and exactly
the same as yourself had got such a buzz and with so much
energy afterwards that he just knew that was the pathway for
him. But started small.
And I think we've mentioned that already, started with two or
three people, trialled it out, see how it goes, get the
feedback. Because it is beta testing,
isn't it really if we go back to kind of our own products.
So it's the same thing and you've mentioned it as well.
Don't rush too much. No, not at all.
And that's where I one of my predictions for for B to B and
I'll put in my post tomorrow. But just like you've said now
starting small, your initial users are that focus group to
better the product, better the journey, equal better results.
And let's say, for example, now I have a community of let's just
call them engineers are wanting to show a bit on LinkedIn and do
their personal brands. Now if I suddenly have 50 very
engaged people that trust me as a thought leader and educate
them on their personal brand and they engage in my community and
the trust is there. Imagine if you could partner and
leverage your community and be like, Hey, there's this new SAS
tool that's come out for engineers.
Hey company. So and so I can put you in front
of 50 of them where they may use your tool.
So either maybe through my community, we do a discount and
a free trial to like get them testing or you pay me to like
come on to a few sessions where you get to almost use them as a
focus group to improve your, your product.
Like I eventually think when people have an audience and more
specifically a community in it, you could let you have 20
people, but if they're all earning 6 figures, like you
could get quite a good like deal out of all of them.
Or, you know, show value and, and build enough trust to be
like, Oh yeah, this is a, this is an easy purchase.
Like I, I have someone, I, I coach and I met her through
other communities and then we just kept in touch on LinkedIn.
And then eventually she said like, you know, do you have any
other offers? I'm like, yeah, I'm thinking
about doing this. She's like, she like, sign me
up. And then I had another guy
that's been following me for two years and he, he, he actually
got a whiff of that content change.
I was testing with the keywords and he's like, do you have
another offer now? Like what's going on with your
content? And I told him in two lines,
like, sign me up. The work was done.
Like I, I'm not down playing Also that it, I've been doing
this for three years and showing up and it's, it's, you need to
get that consistency. Once you get this, it's like,
that's awesome. There's like so much potential
out there. Now.
I really want a gun for more coaching, more community,
because it'll also allow it to be more accessible.
Whether someone can't afford the live session or the course
that's in real time, maybe at least they can get my resources
for a cheap expense with some videos.
So I do want to eventually cater to a wide audience.
All in all, it's just when you really know you can help
someone, you see the results and you see the reaction of their
face on a call, like nothing can beat that.
Like you're such a cool feeling, like the real, like fulfilment.
And feeling good, but also it's it's acts of service, it's
impact. I'm exactly the same.
I thrive off watching other people's faces, their
expressions, how well they're doing think can be them in terms
of helping other people, which I love.
Thank you for obviously mentioning the mental health and
I do want to kind of circle back on that part of it.
Anything else you want to add? Well, I guess it's more the
therapy side of things or the anxiety.
So I think what that allowed me to do, which is quite nice is
help me work on more so my emotional intelligence and I and
just like also empathy, but using it in the right way and at
different levels. And I think especially in the
agency world, agencies a lot to do with people managing
expectations, whether it's from a supplier side to how that's
going to affect the enrol or finish date for the client side
that you have to deal with all these expectations.
It allowed me to work inward and like be very grounded and OK
with myself. Generally just want to help
people and some people don't like that or whatever.
That's fine. But I do think from doing that
process and going through the really bad anxiety, I find it a
lot easier to resonate with people that have been through
those things that allows me maybe to coach them or equip it
in a way that keeps makes them feel more comfortable.
Because you'll you'll struggle, very much so with personal
branding and helping people when you don't create an environment
for them to feel comfortable and to give you the Nuggets of
information that actually allow them to have influence when
creating their content. I really appreciate you opening
up about that because I mean, I have anxiety as well.
I'm so open about it and I think it's it's a difficult one
because it's a catch 22, obviously for me.
I don't really like opening up too much online.
I'd rather do that in person. But I resonate with what you're
saying. Sometimes you do have to throw a
bone out there once in a while. Otherwise you end up becoming
this robot in a way. You're just putting out content.
Yes, it sounds great and you look like you're doing very,
very well, but what's underneath them?
So I think for the listeners, for the listeners and for
clients that you're coaching, it'd be really nice to him hear
that you you go through the same challenges and we all go through
similar experiences regardless of the we are in the world and
age etcetera. We are similar to humans.
And especially for coaches and consultants, you're dealing with
the person and you're not just investing in what they're good
at doing. You're also investing on, you
know, their past experiences. Perhaps they actually did go
through a few similar difficult situations like you that allows
you to let them see themselves in your story and that already
builds greater trust and they feel more comfortable with you.
Because I can actually speak to this about so and so because
they they've been through it. So I don't have to be perhaps as
embarrassed about it or struggle to bring it up because they
genuinely admitted they went through it.
So that makes me feel like, oh, this person is more
approachable. I like practical that strategic
authenticity. You can go like as deep as you
want, which makes you feel comfortable.
At the same time, I open up about it in a ways.
It just shows like I am here. I've been through that and I get
you like happy to speak about it.
Got the confidence of actually posting about it sometimes more
so on LinkedIn and then also just at the end of the post
saying my DMS are open if anyone wants to chat with me.
And I, I ended up having some great conversations, like some
of those people today still support my content.
And all it was is like, sometimes some people just need,
yeah, sound board or someone to speak with.
And I, I know we're all busy and here and then everywhere, but
there's some nice parts that I enjoy about LinkedIn.
They have nothing to do with business.
You generally just meet some generally nice people that just
share some common beliefs as you.
It's really interesting because when I first started started
talking about burnout, during my speeches, the amount of nods
from the audience, all I had to say was burnout.
And it was, Oh yeah, I've heard that and I've gone through that
before. And then afterwards, people just
coming over in waves. Oh, as soon as you said that, I
resonated. So I ended up saying to myself,
I can't believe it took so long to talk about it because I've
only really started doing that the last 2-3 months.
I think for me, it's a lot to do with, I do have this exterior
that everything's great and it's shiny and when I'm doing
fantastically, I'll take it at your own pace.
Don't talk about things you don't want to talk about just
just because you feel you have to.
But when the time's right, you'll know.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. Unfortunately, it's just the
pressures of society as well. I think it's so sad to see
people becoming people they aren't even, that's not even
them, but they're trying to like, you know, fit in or get
approval. And I think it's it's quite
liberating when you reach that point.
Any last words for the listeners?
Touched on the show. Many different things today, but
anything you'd like to leave them with?
Hard to say, yeah, just focus on showing, showing up daily.
But like, you know, showing up could be in the form of an 2
hours and it's OK some days that it's not going as fast.
I think we just like this world's moving so far, so we
expected to achieve XYZI think just get really comfortable with
the setting goals for yourself in the day.
It's you verse you. There's always going to be
someone above you or doing better than you, and you just
need to accept that and rather, yeah, just set your own goals
for yourself because once you really start doing it for you,
for you, it becomes a whole lot more enjoyable and natural.
And better and like I said, it's flow and you start attracting
the clients that you want, the business that you want.
It starts with you, definitely. Isn't exactly exactly looking
forward to coming on next year on episode 2.
You can come on. Well, not next year.
I mean, you'll be in London soon, so we'll figure that out
for sure. Yeah.
We'll figure something out for sure.
And I think that comes to the end of the episode that you're
making me not you're making me go off scrim.
But that was not talking about unify, hustle, branding,
community, growth mindset. And I will speak to you all at
very, very soon.
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